When I was making
my way through the distraction addiction earlier in the semester, I
kept getting distracted by my own thoughts. I'd stop randomly to
consider how things would be relevant to my life, and there was one
thing that I kept going back to, how this applies to my gaming
sessions with my friends.
Whenever I'm home,
I'll try to get some tabletop gaming in with some of my friends, and
for a long time distractions have been a problem. Some of the games
we play have the rules online so occasionally, “I'm looking up my
spells” is a valid excuse, if not still equally annoying.
For me, tabletop
gaming is about escaping my technology for a few hours and just
focusing on the people at the table with you, be they elves, dwarves,
twi'leks or early 20th century businessmen. Even hiking
can't provide that same level of limited technology use for me, as I
always end up tracking my hike with GPS and taking pictures along the
way.
In role playing
games especially phones are just the outside world's way of leaking
into a shared face to face experience. Homework, drunk siblings
looking for a ride home, girlfriends and a multitude of other things
could all start being an issue at any moment or throughout the entire
gaming session.
In a better world
my friends and I could all strive to achieve what the author of “The
Distraction Addiction” accomplished when they started turning of
their internet connection and using simpler more focused tools.
Phones have modes to make sure only important notifications appear,
and some even come with an off button for some extreme situations.
Just like training people to not expect you to respond to email the
second you get it, you also have to train people to understand that
you need time to yourself so that you can let yourself turn your
phone off.
If I were a cruel
person I would start to turn off my router whenever I host, and let
the Faraday cage that is my house do the rest of the work for me, but
just like technological distractions as a whole each person has to
learn how to deal with this problem for themselves.