Over the past eight years I have babysat for many families
which has given me experience with children of all different ages and
abilities. I also have many small cousins whose development and upbringing I am
very involved in. One thing that has shocked me over the past few years is how reliant
all of these different kids have become on handheld electronics. While some
parents see no qualms with allowing their children unlimited access to whatever
their hearts desire, I am noticing many parents who are beginning to question
if allowing so much time on electronics is detrimental to the development of
their children.
A Huffington Post article recently released gives ten
reasons as to why children under the age of 12 should not be allowed to use
handheld electronics. They give ten reasons with support as to why this should
be the case. The first example is how in the first two years of life the brain
develops at a very rapid pace and the lack of stimuli from handheld electronics
can cause this grown to greatly slow down. This can even cause problems such as
attention deficit disorders and impaired learning. The second and third relate
to the lack of movement from handheld electronics-delayed development and
epidemic obesity. Since the use of handheld electronics causes such little
movement the development of the brain and motor skills is delayed and the lack
of physical movement is causing an increase in obesity in children.
Electronics have been shown to cause many issues such as
sleep deprivation, mental illness and higher aggression in individuals and this
is the same for children as well. However, these can be a much greater risk in
children since they are still developing their mental and physical skills and
attention spans. This can cause many problems down the road as well. Electronics can also cause a new type of
addiction where children continually want to be using their electronics.
Children have begun to lost interest in other aspects of life such as sports
and friends. Now spending time with friends is often competing with each other
on a video game or everyone surrounding an electronic device watching someone
else use it.
In one particular family I babysit for I have seen a higher
rate of aggression begin to form in the boys when I tell them they are not
allowed to use their devices. They often get angry and yell at me and attempt
to sneak them past me or come up with excuses to try to use them. I have also
begun to see how the younger boy gets distracted very easily and even has a
hard time focusing enough to eat breakfast. It became such a problem in school
that his teachers sent home notes about his attention problems and the
electronics were taken from the boys for an extended period of time. To this
day they are very limited in their electronic use and all use is monitored
closely by the adult with them. This change brought great improvement in how
they have grown and their interest in physical activities and social situations.
I personally think it is a great idea to limit and in some situations eliminate
the use of hand held electronics by children. I feel that it will better help
children to develop and learn vital life skills that cannot be learned by
looking into a glowing screen.
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