“I thought so Lol and when your busy we can talk longer BC
wer not gonna text as much anymore threw out the day BC im working now”
“Are you there i past out”
“Witch is y you should meet me”
“Maybe ill here from you then”
“Guess your to busy”
“’Getting in the shower can you message me at this thing’
‘Intermittently’
‘What you mean’
‘adjective. stopping or ceasing for a time; alternately ceasing
and beginning again: an intermittent pain’”
“I actually stopped someone an talked to him an I realized
that he was a bumb an he said hey go into this building it's a soup kitchen an
ask this dude an sit down have a cup of coffee so I did an there was a bunch of
bumbs an they one of the guys came over an gave me this number an I called it
an the dude said definitely he needs worker's an that he'll b calling me at
like 5 today an now how have a friend for a bumb as well lmao I sat down an had
lunch with him J
there pretty cool people when you get to know them”
“Wow she is fucking siko”
All of the above are texts or instant messages that I have
received within the past month or so. If this does not make you stop and think
about what the shorthand of instant messaging has done to young people’s communication skills, then you must
be one of the many illiterate young people out there who wouldn’t be able to
write a professional sentence to save their life.
Now, there is an argument for students who know the
difference between writing a text or IM and writing a professional email or
essay, but most students don’t. This is coming from someone who knows people
first hand that think it’s okay to text their boss with gargled nonsense and
lack of punctuation. I’ve received texts that are so far off from actual
English that I’ve had to read and reread them several times to get a clear
understanding of the message.
I understand that the occasional typo or misuse of a word is
forgivable in day to day text conversations, but when someone doesn’t even put
forth the effort to try and sound intelligent is when it becomes a problem. We
have spell checkers and autocorrect for a reason. Often the reason we use
instant messages or texts is because we want the messages to come and go
quickly. When you’re typing that fast without thinking, chances are you’re
going to hit the wrong keys once in a while. But spell check can’t save you
from misusing words like homophones that have their own meanings already. I can’t
tell you the countless number of people I know who don’t differentiate between
the words “your” and “you’re” or “there,” “their,” and “they’re.” Some people
misuse these words so often that they don’t even see the difference anymore!
When I see someone use the wrong homophone, my brain automatically stops and
realizes the sentence doesn’t make sense, but some people can just read through
without even cringing.
There was a time when my friends and I joined this site
where you get to chat with random people in your area. It was incredible how
many people showed their terrible grammar within the first few messages. Are
you not trying to make a good impression? I just ignored the people who couldn’t
construct proper sentences.
Communication is one of the most important skills you can
learn. If you don’t know how to build an argument clearly and convincingly on
paper, you are not going to be considered a trustworthy source. Given two
people, one a very literate, convincing individual, the other a kind-hearted
individual with little to no linguistic skill, you are going to side with the
more convincing argument. Even if the first guy’s argument was for a bad cause
and the other guy’s was for a good one. There is a reason so many bad people
come into power or change the opinions of thousands of people. They know how to
command an audience. If you don’t know how to make a simple grammatically
correct sentence let alone pose an argument, you are going to be discredited
almost immediately. You may have good points, but if I can’t read through your
paper or article without wanting to shoot myself, then I’m not going to be on
your side.
Now that I’ve ranted about that, back to how texting is
ruining our communication skills. There are two main sides to this argument. On
one side, students these days are far more illiterate than they were before
instant messaging technology existed. Because of the widespread use of texting
and whatnot, grammar and spelling have become far less important to us. If we misspell
a word or a word autocorrects to something that doesn’t make any sense, it’s
easy to just follow-up with another quick text or IM with the correction or
clarification. Whereas back then, if you mailed someone a letter but didn’t
know how to write, chances are the person on the receiving end would have no
idea what you were saying, and they would need to go through much greater
lengths for clarification. Not only that, but it makes learning our language
tremendously harder for foreigners. I’ve talked with many people from India
online who use the number eight to make the ‘ate’ sound when they type to me.
Not to mention the many other mistakes they make that seem to originate from
talking to other Americans online who do not know how to communicate in their
own native language.
On the other side, some linguists claim that “language is
not a static thing…and the changing sounds and phrases of a language are merely
reflections of the changes in a particular society.” However, this is not
merely a change in phrases or the way we say words. This is a change in what we
consider the very basis of a language. We are assigning meanings to words or
phrases that do not make any sense. Using “your” instead of “you’re” isn’t a language
naturally adapting to societal changes, it’s just simply incorrect grammar.
While texting and professional writing are clearly different, I do not believe
that fact is clear among many young people. Even if you do know the difference between
“through” and “threw,” there is no excuse not to type the correct one in a text
or IM. They both take the same amount of effort to type. Schools need to put a
larger emphasis on the importance of writing. Not just for the sake of writing
persuasive essays and research papers, but just for the basic need for
communication. Otherwise the English language—or any language—as we know it is
doomed.